Fetish Friday – Trashbagging/Garbage Fetish
0I had never heard of this until I randomly came across a blog on Google. I’m not even sure what I was searching for.
Just as it sounds, some people are extremely aroused by garbage. Like any fetish, the details vary widely person to person. Some people really enjoy messy, decaying food garbage while the writer of the blog I discovered is only interested in recyclables and paper. In short, the writer of this particular blog enjoyed sleeping next to bags full of garbage, wearing garbage, and fantasizing about becoming garbage himself. In fact, it seems like most trashcan fetishists are most turned on by becoming garbage or being thrown away.
Other fetishists are more aroused by trashbags themselves. They may enjoy the slippery plastic on their skin. I’ve always liked the smell of black garbage bags. It doesn’t arouse me, but I enjoy the smell of new things, like Barbie dolls. I wonder how they liked the Missy Elliot video for The Rain. Anyways, some fetishists love lying in dumpsters or imagining such. These fetishes can be extensions of several other fetishes, like breath play (If the garbage bag is used to asphyxiate), sploshing, or even the latex fetish. I don’t know of any garbage fetishists, but if you’re reading this, I’d appreciate some insight as to whether a person wishing to be human garbage enjoys humiliation and objectification as a sexual fetish.
I’ve read a few other blogs about people that have found neighbors rummaging through their apartment building’s dumpster. It seems as though the people that witnessed dumpster divers (I’m not sure if that’s an offensive term, forgive me if it is) are offended by their trash being rooted though. I don’t understand why they’d be so possessive over the things they threw away, but whatever…
If you have anything else to include in this Fetish Friday, please contact me at xdominox4@gmail.com!
Trash Bag Dress by Riyoki Sakimori
Domino’s Damsels – Independent Cam Girl Listings
0I posted this once before, but I’ve changed a few things (including the layout of the site!) and I’ve included the survey. Check out DominosDamsels.com to see all of the lovely camgirls waiting for you!
This one’s for the ladies. I’m starting a new (and completely free!) camgirl classifieds site with Tyler, the amazing guy that runs SexyLadyShow.com. Tyler has over 55,000 followers on Twitter and has an amazing reputation for promoting camgirls, thus getting them business. Between Tyler’s skill for networking and promoting you ladies and my constant need to keep busy and help others, I know it will be really successful.
My motivation for starting this site is largely selfish. I started doing mostly independent shows in 2010, after gathering a fairly loyal customer base from NiteFlirt and CamGirlsSites.com (CGS). Unfortunately, CGS has not been maintained for quite some time, and I’m tired of waiting for them to come around.
The site will be completely free to everyone. In the future, my plan is to offer payment processing, and there will be a small fee that goes along with that, but you will not be obligated to use my payment processor. You can enter your site URL and your instant messaging usernames, unlike some other sites. The whole purpose of this site is to get you more business without having to pay 70% of the money you earn to a cam site.
How it works
You’ll get your own profile page. On your page, all the answers from the survey will be listed as tags along with your contact information, pictures, and if you’d like, a short “About Me” paragraph or an intro video. Guys will be able to search for you based on what types of shows you offer, your age, and your looks and modifications. The site will be in the beta stages for a couple months while we build traffic, and I definitely need girls willing to test the site out. If you’re interested in being listed on the site from the very start, please email me at domino@dominoxxx.com.
What I need from you
- Your stage name. Pick one and stick with it.
- Your completed survey. Completed means you didn’t skip any questions.
- A fan sign. This is to make sure you’re not a bot. Your stage name should be on the sign.
- Five (5) pictures that best represent your looks and persona.
- Your Skype, Yahoo, and MSN handles (if you want them listed) and/or your email.
The survey is a tool to help me categorize you on the site. For instance, if you offer fetish shows (bondage, watersports, etc.) then you should list what fetishes you offer. I am going to have a ratings system on the site so that guys can rate your show, so do your best!
Survey
Do you do anal? If sometimes, please say so.
How old are you? (your perceived age, doesn’t have to be your real age. if you’re 26 and people guess you to be 22, list 22.)
Are you willing to do watersports?
Are you willing to do various roleplays? list the ones you’re comfortable with.
Do you sell panties?
What is your breast size?
Do you shave? If partially, please say so.
Do you have any body modifications? (tattoos, piercings, implants, etc.)
What color is your hair?
Are there any special toys you own?
What messengers do you use? (skype, yahoo, msn, etc.)
Are you willing to do dom/sub roleplay?
Are there any fetishes you specialize in?
Is sound included in your shows?
What are your rates? (per minute, per 10 minutes, per 20 minutes, etc)
Do you have your own website? if so, what is the URL?
What nationality are you?
What times are you normally available?
Are you willing to be rated based on your service, accuracy of your ad, reliability, and performance?
What languages do you speak?
If you have any questions prior to signing up, feel free to email me at domino@dominoxxx.com. Happy Camming!
The 3 Women That Visit Strip Clubs
0These are merely my observations. I don’t mean to “slut shame” anyone or sound discriminating.
1. The Insecure Girlfriend That Wants To Be “Cool”
The dancers know who I’m talking about. This is the girl that comes in with her boyfriend because he wanted to go. She doesn’t want to say no because she doesn’t want to seem controlling. She may also just want to keep an eye on him. They may come with or without his friends. She sits at a table with her arms crossed, looking incredibly nervous. When a dancer speaks to her or tries to get her to loosen up, she blushes and turns away. She isn’t necessarily rude, overtly judgmental, or catty. She either doesn’t speak up when a dancer takes a dollar off of her or lifts her shirt, or she refuses to partake in any shenanigans.
2. The Bitchy “Strippers Are Sluts” Girl
She’s always there with a group, usually on a Friday or Saturday night or a drinking holiday. She orders a drink and stands with a group of girls, occasionally turning around to look at the girl on stage and whisper about her, just like junior high. She’s the jealous, insecure type, but she’d never let you know it. She’s very catty, obviously judgmental, and thinks she is better than the dancers. This is the same type of girl that may compete with the dancers by grinding on guys in her group. She’s also prone to drunken dancing like a moron with her girlfriends. These are the girls that also may come with their significant other in order to supervise him.
3. The Cool Bi-Curious or Openly Bi Girlfriend (Or Single Girl) There To Have Fun
My favorite type of girl. These are the girls sitting at the stage, tipping, encouraging the dancers, and putting dollars on their friends. They’re fun, they buy dances, and they ask good questions. They are impressed by pole tricks. They love to either get double dances with their significant other or buy dances for him/her. They cheer and clap for the girls. They aren’t judgmental or catty.
Tax Tips for Strippers and Cam Girls by Kevin Bachhuber
0Kevin Bachhuber is a financial professional licensed to sell insurance and securities products in the state of Wisconsin.
Note: I am not a licensed tax professional, so my suggestions should be taken as suggestions. Talk to a CPA or other tax professional for your specific situation.
Second Warning: I try to make this as interesting as possible. Unfortunately, it is difficult to make any conversation about tax deductions anything but dry. I apologize in advance.
So, when talking about taxes, the key idea is maximizing your tax deductions. There’s a fairly large set of IRS caselaw relating to strippers and how they can qualify their expenses for tax deduction. It’s an expensive business; why add a giant tax bill if you don’t have to?
Tax Tip 1: Talk to a CPA. Most of the rest of this article should be considered with the help of a Certified Public Accountant. They’ll be able to help figure out what applies to you, what doesn’t, how/when to pay your taxes, and more.
Tax Tip 2: Incorporate! Corporations are people, so why not be a corporation? Most dancers and camgirls are independent contractors, so they can readily take advantage of incorporating into a sole proprietorship business. There are a number of advantages: business expenses (more on that later) may be tax deductible through the business, you can pay taxes quarterly, and you can provide yourself employee benefits.
Providing employee benefits (to yourself) can lower your tax bill significantly. The IRS has set up specific types of retirement accounts called Solo 401(k) plans that allow you to put up to $50,000 per year towards retirement. Depending on how you set up this account, that whole amount may be tax-deferred (meaning you don’t pay taxes until you withdraw the money during retirement). Additionally, you may be able to deduct the cost of premiums for any health insurance or disability insurance you provide for yourself.
You can register your business and get an Employee Identification Number here. Whether you incorporate into a sole proprietorship, LLC, S Corporation, or C Corporation will depend on your individual needs, and the incorporation process will depend on your state.
Tax Tip 3: Know what you can and cannot deduct. It’s incredibly expensive to be a stripper or a camgirl. You can use these business expenses to lower your taxable income. The most common tax deductions a stripper or camgirl may be able to claim include:
- Work clothes. The IRS defines work clothes as something you purchase specifically for your job that you cannot wear outside of work. Most of your outfits, costumes, and shoes probably qualify. Hair, makeup, and nails are a little more questionable due to a set of archaic IRS definitions.
- Travel and lodging: If you travel between clubs, or as part of a national circuit, you may be able to deduct the mileage and any hotel stays from your taxes. The IRS specifies that it has to be traveling from place of work to place of work, not from your home to your place of work.
- Computer and webcams: If you’re a camgirl, your computer and webcam are considered business expenses.
- Breast implants/augmentation: This one can be a little tricky. Chesty Love was the first stripper who successfully argued that her breast implants were business expenses. She was also able to show that her income quadrupled, the breasts were too big for personal use, and she would be removing them when she retired from stripping. If you can show a significant increase in income after the procedure, it may be deductible for you. (Source)
- Housing: If you run a business from your home, and you have a specified area of it you use for work, you may be able to claim a percentage of your rent/mortgage and utilities as business expenses. It’s neat; a CPA can tell you more.
- Club fees, cam fees, and other expenses: This is one of the hardest sets of deductions for most dancers to pull off, but it can be worth your while. Between entrance fees, paying the barstaff, cuts taken from lap dances, and other fees imposed by the club, many strippers will pay about ⅓ of their earnings right back to the strip club. Likewise, everybody takes a cut in the webcamming process. If you can keep records of how much you pay to the club or website, you may be able to deduct those fees.
Tax Tip 4: Keep the best records you can. I know most strip club owners are not exactly willing to provide you with records of when you’ve worked or how much you pay in club fees. Keep records of the days you worked, how much you paid in different types of fees, and how much you made. It’ll not only help you with your taxes, it’ll give you an idea of what your business cashflow is like, and data to support or disprove your assumptions. Strip and Grow Rich offers a really great inexpensive notebook you can purchase to help you keep track of this – here’s a link to purchase it.
Tax Tip 5: Donate to charity. And get receipts. Donations to charity are an awesome tax deduction. You get to help the larger community and reduce your tax bill at the same time. I’ll give a shout-out for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. They do a LOT of work for the benefit of the fetish, kink, and otherwise sexually awesome communities.
One more note on charitable donations: I’d recommend checking the charities you donate to with Charity Watch first. Make sure your money is being used to help people or causes, rather than paying too much to the leaders of the charity. Check out http://www.charitywatch.org/toprated.html.
Rebecca Avalon of Strip and Grow Rich also did a video on how to file taxes. You can check it out on her website.
Kevin Bachhuber is a fetishist and a financial services professional in Madison, Wisconsin. You can follow him on Twitter, LinkedIn, and find his business website here. Kevin can help you with financial planning and retirement services, like estate planning, life insurance, annuities, charitable giving, business insurance, executive compensation, and employee benefits.
Working at Cruisin’ Chubby’s
0This past Saturday, I worked up at Chubby’s in Wisconsin Dells. I don’t think I’ve had so much fun working since I first started stripping! Everyone there is great- the managers, the other girls, the bouncers, and the patrons. Everyone was there to have fun and very few of the patrons were rude in any way, which (sadly) is becoming a more frequent occurrence here in Madison. The managers are all very helpful when it comes to selling champagne rooms, dances, and shower shows. There is no favoritism, or at least, none that I witnessed. I’m so used to seeing the same couple girls do bachelor party stage shows.
There are three stages- two on the main floor and one small stage upstairs in the VIP lounge. We are on stage for at least a half hour at a time, so by the end of the night I was exhausted. The dressing room is really nice, and there’s a microwave and a bathroom with a bathtub. For traveling dancers, I believe they have dorm-like rooms for you to stay in for a nominal fee. Plus, the house fees are really, really reasonable considering the money to be made. They’ve really covered all the bases.
The club is run very professionally and in a respectful way meant to make the girls money. The club allows more than one guy in the shower shows and champagne rooms, so the guys split the cost. Champagne rooms and shower shows are sold frequently.
So guys, if you want to come see me dance, I’ll be working at Chubby’s a lot this summer. You can always check my website to see my schedule. It’s in the right-hand margin on the first page. This week I will be dancing in New Orleans, but I’ll be back there next week on Friday and Saturday, possibly more during the week if my knee allows me to.
Kudos to Chubby’s for knowing how to run a club the right way! It’s fun and lucrative for the girls and a ton of fun for the guys! I hope to see some of my Chicago fans there this summer!
Fetish Friday – Gelding
0This one’s going to make the guys cringe. It was inspired by a conversation I had with an old friend today. You’ve been warned, and I apologize to the pain you feel in your balls while reading this.
Gelding is also known as castration. It can be categorized a few different ways. It falls under the umbrella categories of BDSM and Edge Play. This fetish is pretty rare. I’ve only come across one customer that was into it, and before that, I have no idea it existed. This was back when I started camming on LiveJasmin as a newb. From what I remember, he had some sort of prosthetic attachment that he actually sliced off with a butcher knife. I’ve looked for an online sex store that sells them, but I came up empty-handed. Let me clarify that I wasn’t looking for myself, but rather to show you guys.
Anyway, castration is mainly a punishment (or a gift, depending on your perspective) inflicted upon male slaves. The purpose is to deny the slave of any sexual release and focus all attention on the Dom/me. The idea is that the slave is better able to serve the dominant partner because they are no longer distracted by their own urges.
After castration, there are several physical and emotional consequences. The slave may begin to develop breasts and hips, have hot flashes, reversal of hair loss, loss of muscle mass, weight gain, softening of the hair and skin, and obviously, changes in ejaculation and erection. So hey, if you’re looking to regrow your hair.. just cut your balls off!
There are a few different types of castration. It can be done surgically, chemically, and bloodlessly.
With surgical castration, the testicles are removed by a doctor. Basically, the doctor slices into your balls and cuts them from the cord attaching them to your body.
Chemical castration is achieved by feeding the slave hormonal birth control meant for a female. Depo Provera and Androcur are both popular choices. The drugs inhibit the effects of testosterone and the “castration” is reversible.
Bloodless castration is performed using a Burdizzo. It’s a large clamp meant to crush the cords to the testicles. Eventually, the testes shrink in size and are reabsorbed by the body. This is mainly used to castrate bulls. Side note: I actually witnessed someone perform this on a bull in high school. Small towns..
Another castration style is using an Elastrator. This is what I pictured castration to be before I did the show I mentioned earlier. An Elastrator is a thick rubber band tied around the testicles so tightly that all blood is cut off and they essentially shrivel up and fall off.
Congratulations if you’re a male and you read this far. Thanks to the guy that wrote the Castration Journal for providing me with a lot of this information.
Domino Damoiselle
@SilkenFloss on Twitter
New Wishlist
0I’m working on creating my burlesque wardrobe, so I created a new wishlist using Wishlistr.com! This list is for things that you can’t purchase on Amazon. They’re also more high-end, and consequently a little more expensive, but totally worth it! I’m working on joining a burlesque troupe here in Madison. I’m also looking into feature dancing school. Really, it’s just an excuse to travel.
If you want to help me build my burlesque wardrobe, you can purchase whatever you’d like to see me wearing. Anything you buy for me comes with a handwritten thank you card (if you’d like me to send it back to you, that is!), a custom photo set of me wearing your gift, and or course, a huge thank you from me!
The link to my wishlist is here. I don’t have a PO box because the post office nearest to me has none available. If you see something you like, you can have it shipped to my club. Make sure you address it to Domino Damoiselle!
Domino Damoiselle
c/o Silk Exotic Madison
7302 U.S. 14
Middleton, WI 53562
Camgirl Dont’s with Ember Reigns
0I found this video on the FreeOnes message boards and I thought it was hilarious. Ember is not only gorgeous, but she’s got a great sense of humor and she gives a good sense of what good camgirl practices are (and aren’t)! This is a good video for newbies. Check it out!
Vote for Me for Miss FreeOnes 2012
0Vote for me for Miss FreeOnes 2012! I’m in the running for Best Newcomer, Best Camgirl, and Best Adult Model! You can vote once a day every day, so make sure you go back and vote every day for the next 9 days! If I win, I’ll spoil all of my Twitter followers and fans with custom videos, photos, and other sexy goodies! The Miss FreeOnes title will look amazing on my feature dancing resume, so help me out! My boobs and I will be forever in your debt!
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