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I'm a stripper, phone sex operator, and webcam model. I'm pansexual, submissive, and perverted. I'm not your average female. Imagine Wednesday Addams, Daria, Liz Lemon, and Darlene Conner had an orgy. I'm the result.

I mainly write about the sex industry, sexual fetishes, and occasionally, my personal life. Wanna know more about me? Keep coming back!

  1. Fetish Friday – Chremastistophilia

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    A couple years ago, I wrote about hybristophilia, also known as Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome. You know those women that write letters to serial killers in prison? The ones that assert the guy’s innocent, despite irrefutable proof, and even a confession, in some cases? That’s what they’re called.

    Chremastistophilia is like the parent fetish of these more particular fetishes. Specifically, blackmail, financial domination/submission, and erotic asphyxiation. Some guys may even visit escorts simply because they get off on the transactional nature of the sex. However, most chremastistophiliacs get off on being robbed, beaten, and being cheated/cheated on. This fetish is very dependent on the emotional response of the fetishist. Somehow, wires get crossed, and the emotions are sexualized.

    Sorry, I couldn’t think of many snarky or witty lines to go with this one. Deal with it.

  2. Word Wednesday – Haus Frau

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    I’m pretty sure this term is unique to one of the dudes I went to Iceland with. Chances are, if you’re from Wisconsin or the Midwest, you can picture exactly what a “Haus Frau” is. It’s a really homely woman that may have been attractive in high school, but then really let herself go. I think Juno summed it up pretty well when she described Bleeker’s mom.

  3. Fetish Friday – Quicksand Fetish

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    This one falls under the more generic “damsel in distress” category, for the most part. If you aren’t sure what that is, it’s pretty easy to figure out. Think of the original Super Mario Brothers game- Princess Peach is at the other castle, held captive by Bowzer… only with more jerking off.

    Some Quicksand Fetishists simply enjoy mud. Sinking in it, to be exact. There are even maps with good mud sinkholes plotted out for the benefit of other fetishists. This may be for their own enjoyment or to watch someone sink. Specific soils may even play a large role in their fantasy. Yeah, bear with me, it’s kind of unusual…

    Stucking, the fetish I wrote about a few weeks ago, is also kinda similar to the quicksand fetish, in that a lot of people are interested in the struggle to get out of the quicksand. Usually, total immersion in the water triggers (or symbolizes) orgasm. However, some guys get off on being the hero and saving the damsel is their main motive. Besides cumming.

  4. Word Wednesday – Sidewinder Tits

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    I’d never heard this term until I started trolling the FreeOnes forums. You know how big tits look from the back? Like when you can see sideboob from the back? Those are sidewinder tits. Here’s what mine look like in a photo by Taylor LaRue.


  5. Word Wednesday – Rosebudding

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    Apparently I’m on some sort of anal kick. Gee, I wonder why.

    The hot new thing in porn is called rose budding. Are people really that bored with their porn that they need to see a person purposely prolapse their rectum? And it doesn’t stop there – the person with the non-prolapsed colon then proceeds to suck on said colon. This is right on par with Tub Girl.

    If you really want to see a sample picture, feel free to go here.

  6. Guest Post: Derek of Derek Ace Custom Photography

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    The text to display in the message box.[/message_box]Meet Derek Ace, purveyor of extraordinary imagery. Derek and I will be working together quite a bit in the future (I hope) and as I usually do most of my modeling on trade, I want to promote him a bit. Derek is available for weddings, portraits, and landscape stuff. If you want to book him for a shoot, you can either contact him on Facebook or email him at dva085(at) Derek travels the USA pretty extensively, so if you’re a model looking to shoot, it’s worth hitting him up to ask whether or not he has plans to visit your area.

    Derek says….

    I am a hybrid photographer based out of the Wisconsin. I focus on landscape and portraiture work, but also specialize in rural exploration. While I set out to explore and look for traditional scenes, I also seek the unbeaten paths where places, time and life have been forgotten. My work with a camera is more than a job, it is a movement in my life. I find an enormous amount of joy and meaning in this craft.I absolutely love what I do. I aim to set my photographs in a particular direction and infuse them with excitement, thrill, emotions and a unique wonder. I also do portraiture work. I enjoy working people and delivering a product and service I am nothing less than 100 percent proud of. While I offer your traditional array of packages, I also offer a creative experience. With this I incorporate people into unusual environments and places allowing different perspectives to be unlocked and revealed. In post processing, I use custom treatments and tones to help present people in a tasteful and intriguing way; a way my call my own.

    Model Credits:
    Sarah Day Calcagno

  7. Word Wednesday – Eyeball Fucking

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    Most people just say “eye fucking” or “that guy totally fucked me with his eyes” but I call it eyeball fucking. This is the look someone gives you that makes you feel like a piece of meat. It’s not the polite, look-away-when-eye-contact-is-made stare. It’s the shameless, I-don’t-care-that-you-see-me-staring ogle.

    If you’re going to do it, at least say hi to the other person.. you may come off as less creepy if you actually introduce yourself. But that’s just my opinion.

  8. How to Do Anal Sex (and Anal Play!)

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    This may seem like a really lame and/or stupid topic, but trust me, if there’s one thing I’ve learned in my adventures as a sex worker, it’s that people are phenomenally uneducated when it comes to sex. I’ll break it down for you guys. Since there are people out there that are way more well-versed in anal than I am, I welcome any additions to this post.

    While you don’t need any toys to enjoy playing with your asshole, it does heighten the experience. Different toys offer different experiences, so choose whatever best fits your needs. For instance, stainless steel butt plugs are really heavy, which can feel really good if you’re doing double penetration. They also can be heated up or cooled down for added sensation. On the other hand, you can also use a simple plug or a vibrating plug that stimulates your prostate (if you’re a dude).


    Before You Start, Here’s What NOT to Do…

    1. Above all: Don’t use anything that doesn’t have a flared base. This is why you see x-rays of people that have a lightbulb, dildo, cucumber, or any other phallic objects inside their rectums. Unless you want to be a joke to the nearest on-call radiologist, use only toys meant specifically for anal play. Your asshole is like a vacuum. Remember that, remind yourself of it daily: “My ass is like a Dyson.”

    2. Don’t use the wrong lube with your toys. Using the wrong lube can lead to your dildo collection turning into the liquefied sex toy version of Fukushima. Don’t believe me? If the scientific method is something you’re into, check out this sex blogger’s dildo experiment. Toxic sex toys are serious business! PS – it’s always OK to use more lube.

    3. Don’t expect a giant toy to fit right away. If it hurts, stop, take a break, and try something smaller.

    4. Don’t go ass-to-mouth or ass-to-pussy without cleaning up first, or use a condom for one hole.
    What You Need:

    1. Lube. If you’re using toys as part of your anal play, make sure the lube you buy is compatible with the material that your toy’s made of. For instance, don’t use a silicone-based lube on a toy made of silicone. This will damage the toy (remember dildo Fukushima?). Use a water-based lube (like KY) on silicone toys. Some people actually use coconut oil as lube, too. This is a great idea for women that are prone to BV and yeast infections, as coconut oil has natural antifungal and antibacterial properties.

    2. Enema. Some people douche with an enema prior to anal sex. This is totally up to you.

    3. Baby Wipes. Just trust me.

    4. A toy (or fingers, if you prefer)

    5. A towel (optional, but I prefer it)

    6. Soap and hot water, for cleanup.


    The Good Part:

    For the sake of my sanity, I’m going to write this assuming there are two people involved and one is on the receiving end. For beginners or people that haven’t done anal play in a while, I highly recommend starting small and working your way up. Instead of using a dildo right away, start with a butt plug.

    1. Have everything you need within arm’s reach.

    2. Lube up both your asshole and a plug.

    3. Take a deep breath and relax. Don’t tense or clench. It won’t work if the person is tense or clenching. If you’re clenching, it’s going to hurt.

    4. Very slowly and gently start to insert the toy. It may feel weird or uncomfortable, like you’re pooping, but it’ll get better within a few seconds. Pitchers, pay attention to your partner’s cues.

    5. Once the receiving partner gets used to the sensation (it takes a few minutes), start gently playing with the toy or gently applying pressure to the perineum (the taint).

    5. Switch out toys if you want and go back to step 4.


    (My) Ideal Positions:

    1. Spooning. I prefer to control the speed and force with which someone fucks me in the ass, and this position makes it easy. Once I start moving my hips faster, that means it’s ok to go a little harder and faster.

    2. Lying face down on the stomach. This is nice for the same reasons, and it allows for more sensation. Especially if you want to try double penetration. I prefer to start with a pillow under my hips, a dildo in my pussy, and then ease into anal sex following the steps listed above. Plus, it’s easy to gradually transition into doggystyle if your partner wants it.

    3. Cowgirl. This one is easier once you’re warmed up. The receiving partner has most control with speed and force, unless the person on the bottom thrusts up (don’t do that, it can hurt. A lot).

  9. Fetish Friday – Stuckage

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    I’d never heard of this one until today when someone emailed me, and I thought it was so fucking awesome I had to write about it.

    Stuck fetishists get turned on by people (especially women) stuck in small places. For instance, a girl stuck in a dog door or a manhole. Judging by the research I’ve done, “stuckers” (as I will now call them) tend to prefer petite, well-endowed women, because the bigger your tits, hips, and ass, the more likely you are to get stuck. The stuck fetish is kind of an offshoot of the “Damsel in Distress” fetish, where people are excited by the idea of a woman in danger, whether it’s imminent (like sinking in quicksand) or something more benign, like being stuck in a dryer. Or the back of a Volkswagen.

    This scene from Orange is the New Black is relevant.

    Allow Christina Ricci illustrate how this fetish can be sexy.

  10. Word Wednesday – Starfish

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    A starfish is a chick who just lays there during sex. She doesn’t make a noise or do any of the work. You probably know exactly what I’m talking about, so there isn’t much need to explain. I’m guaranteeing most guys will be with a starfish at some point in their lives.